Can you truly see yourself in the other, in their vulnerability to de-faulty programming, the dualism machine and pre-placed dominoes? The fundamentals of their shoe construction are the same as yours. This may allow for your focus to readjust to compassion lenses and the fundamental understanding:

The human condition is ripe with faulty programming and it is the cause of choices and circumstance.

Don’t blame the domino build. The only way to develop wise compassion lenses is to have another’s essence hidden. Are you into easy domino toppling or complex?